If you Google yourself and see nothing, so does everyone else

Before a client calls you, they look you up. If your own name search comes back thin, that is the first impression you are making. Here is how to check it.

Caleb Hellinger working on a laptop at a dining table

Here is the cheapest test in business. Open a private browser window, type your full name, and press enter. Then look at what comes back like a stranger would.

Most people I ask to do this have not done it in years. Some have never done it. And a surprising number are quietly disappointed by what they see, because what they see is either nothing, or something that is not them.

Your name is the first interview

When someone is about to hire you, refer you, invest in you or let you speak at their event, they look you up. They do not announce it. You never get to know they did it. You just get a call, or you don't.

That search is the first interview, and you are not in the room. Whatever comes up is your answer to the question "who is this person and can I trust them?"

If it comes up empty, the person doesn't think "they must be private." They think "I can't tell if this is real." In my experience, uncertainty loses to the competitor who is easy to verify. Every time.

Empty is not neutral

A lot of professionals tell me they prefer to keep a low profile. I get it. I'm not asking anyone to turn into an influencer.

But a low profile and a blank profile are different things. A low profile means the things that exist are accurate and calm. A blank profile means a stranger has nothing to hold onto, so they fill the gap with doubt.

It also goes the other way. If the first result is an old directory listing with the wrong address, or a profile from three jobs ago, that is worse than nothing. It tells people you are not paying attention.

It is not just Google anymore

This is the part people miss. Your name search used to be one page of results. Now there is a second version of it that happens inside AI tools.

When someone asks ChatGPT, Claude or Perplexity about you, the answer is built from what has been published about you. Articles, interviews, profiles, mentions on sites those tools trust. If that material is thin, the tool has nothing to say, or it says something vague, or it confuses you with someone who has a similar name.

I wrote about this in why being the best in your field isn't enough anymore. The short version is that skill decides whether you keep a client, but visibility decides whether you get the chance. Your name search, on Google and in AI, is where that decision gets made.

What I actually look at

When I check my own name, or a new client's, I am not counting results. I am asking four plain questions.

First, is the top result something I control, like a website or a profile that is current and says what I actually do? Second, is there anything from a third party, a publication or an interview, that says it for me? Anyone can say they are good. Someone else saying it carries more weight. Third, is anything out of date or wrong? Fourth, if a stranger read only the first page, would they know what I do and who I do it for?

Most people pass the first question and fail the second. They have a website, maybe a LinkedIn page, and nothing that comes from anyone else. That is fixable, but it takes real work. Third-party proof does not appear because you wished for it. Someone has to write about you, and you have to give them a reason to.

I learned the value of that the slow way. After I moved to Arizona and lost the business I had been building, I had real experience and nothing a stranger could find to confirm it. People took my word for it one conversation at a time, which is slow. A name search that did some of that work for me would have saved months.

Try this today

Do the private window test now. Write down the first five things you see. Next to each one, mark whether it is accurate, whether you control it, and whether it comes from someone other than you.

If you find a gap, pick one fix. Update the stale profile. Correct the wrong listing. Or start working toward one real piece of coverage from a source people trust.

What came up when you searched your own name? I'd like to hear whether it matched how you see yourself.

Want people to find you when they ask AI who to trust?

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